Sensei Dawn’s Blog
Every student knows the #1 rule at Dawn Barnes Karate Kids is to Always Try Your Best. I remember an older gentleman once puling me aside after a belt test to tell me I had it all wrong. He said, “The first rule shouldn’t be to try your best, it should be to DO your best.”
I understand what he meant. Like Yoda, he was thinking, “Do or do not. There is no try.”
Ah, yes. A very wise and empowering philosophy. Except for one thing…
You’ll never know what you can do until you try!
Trying comes first. Especially for children. Children don’t know what they’re capable of yet. Their life is a period of exploration…trial and error…and learning. And the greatest lessons to learn are what they CAN and CAN’T do.
Wait–what’s that? There’s something we CAN’T do? But that flies in the face of all those positive thinking posters and uplifting bumper stickers I see everywhere!
Sorry to break the news, but we are all different. Very different. We have different talents and capabilities. Different habits and preferences. And because we are not the same, it’s a fact that we can’t all do the same things!
If you tell a child to do something expecting success every time, you will be disappointed. And you’ll stress the child out as well! The fact is some children can do what you ask and some cannot. And that’s okay!
It’s okay if you’re not the best singer in the world. It’s okay if you can’t break 10 bricks with your head. It’s okay if someone can jump higher than you. Not only is it okay, I say if you find out you can’t do something and want to quit, that’s okay, too! Why?
Because at least you tried!
Let’s be honest. Even when we’re patient and make our best efforts, over and over again, we can never do everything we want. Once we accept that, life gets easier. How? Because we can develop and play our strengths and ask for help to make up for our shortcomings.
In other words, DO what you can do, and DO NOT do what you can’t do.
Hey wait–maybe that’s what Yoda meant when he said, “Do or do not.” Maybe that’s the ultimate wisdom he discovered after living for 900 years. Hmm. We may never know what Yoda meant for sure, but for us, the lesson is clear…
To believe you or anyone can do it all is foolish. But to encourage everyone to try is a step towards self-knowledge and success. That’s why at Dawn Barnes Karate Kids, we say–
Always Try Your Best!
Ages 2 – 3 | Preschool
Mommy and Me
Dawn Barnes Karate Kids is excited to offer a class designed for children 2 -3 years! Karate Kitties is a toddler karate program focused on motor-skill development and parent/child bonding. Click here to Try a Free Class! For more about Kitties, click here.
Ages 3½ – 5 | Preschool
1 OR 2 CLASSES/WEEK
The Tiger Tots program focuses on teaching motor skills, social skills, and self-control within a playful and nurturing karate class. Click here to Try a Free Class!
Ages 5 – 7 | Kindergarten + First Grade
Lions is the prep program for Dragons. Students practice good manners and playground-appropriate self-defense techniques in fun, high energy classes. Click here to Try a Free Class!
The Black Belt Program
Ages 7-14 | 2nd Grade and Up
The Dragons program promotes focus and respect through age-appropriate karate and grappling techniques. Students who try their best graduate through 12 belt ranks as they earn their way to a GOZEN Black Belt. Click here to Try a Free Class!
By Invitation Only
Halfway through the Dragons program, students may be invited into the Black Belt Club. BBC members practice more advanced karate skills, serve as school leaders, and are encouraged to earn special Hero Patches by participating in charitable acts within the community.